WHY is it that we want what we can’t have?
At some point in all of our lives we will meet this crossroad. Maybe just once or maybe over and over again. You will hurt and you will feel joy, it’s a crazy mix of emotions that we have to endure during the process. Now, we’re clearly talking more into the dating side of wanting what you can’t have but it works in all aspects of life.
You may feel this way about a pair of Louboutins that only a sugar daddy could provide for you, but you still feel the same emotions. Joy because it’s something you want and hurt when the realization hits, that transaction is just not going to work out. It freakin’ sucks.
Example: you give out your number to two different people (guys or girls) in the same evening. Person #1 calls, or texts or Facebooks you(don’t even go there) the next day. You’re excited and probably happy with that until you realize that person #2 has yet to get in-touch with you and it’s been over a week. Person #2 suddenly becomes that much more appealing in your eyes and you start to wonder about them. BOOM..did we blow your mind?
We’re not sure if it’s the attraction and the chase of wanting what you can’t have that makes us want “it” even more or the want to have something we think is above us. Either way, you end up almost needing it. Some, who play their cards right find the ways to get it, they like that challenge. Others give up right away, expecting to lose.
And our opinion? It’s annoying but we LOVE a good challenge and will take one on any day. See ya on the flip-side lovers:)
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